In 1969 a movie titled Bob
& Carol & Ted & Alice made its way to the silver screen. The movie openly explored promiscuity in
marriage and spouse-swapping. At the
time, I was just entering my teens. I
recall the stir made by the movie, but I didn’t fully grasp the implications
back then.
Fast-forward to
2016. As much as I distain to mention
this, I have degraded to point where I now engage in swapping with other
couples. Not spouses. I and two other couples have become jigsaw
puzzle-swappers.
This all started
innocently enough. A couple I know—we shall
call them couple X—purchased a 750 piece jigsaw puzzle and took a few days to
put it together. That led them to a few
1000 piece puzzles. Before long, their dining
room table always featured a jigsaw puzzle.
Innocently enough, another couple—couple Y—stopped by to visit couple X.
You know the story from
here.
In a matter of a few
weeks, both couple X and couple Y had puzzles spread across their dining room tables. Eventually, that girl and I were similarly
exposed to jigsaw puzzles. We purchased
our first 1000-piece puzzle on impulse.
At present, three couples
are at play with jigsaw puzzles. If you
enter any one of our homes, you will find a puzzle under construction. The border will likely be complete, and the
other pieces will be strewn about, looking like the remnants of a bombed-out
city. All of us are drawn to the
puzzles.
I often stop by to visit
couple Y on my way home from shopping in Helena. I find myself immediately pulled toward the ever-present
unfinished puzzle there. I cannot leave
until I have put in place at least one piece.
Sometimes I stay for hours, swearing at the pieces, sweating. On occasion, I will find a piece or two that couple
Y improperly forced into place in a late-night puzzle binge.
So deep have all of us
fallen into the puzzle-building craze, we sometimes call one another on the
phone to discuss puzzles. Worse, as
indicated by the opening of this blog, we have become puzzle-swappers. We have all began to purchase, build, and swap
puzzles once we have had our way with them.
I cannot say if this is
normal behavior for couples. At this
point, our obsession is complete, and any analysis is moot. We are where we are. Posted today is a photo of the puzzle
presently under construction on my dining room table.
--Mitchell
Hegman
A couple that plays together stays together!
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